It’s one thing to help bear one another’s burden but it’s quite another when they don’t want to carry their fair share. Everybody needs a helping hand from time to time, but my goodness, your hand is supposed to be JOINED WITH the helping hand! We have a society of people who won’t go through their tests and will burden you and wear you out with their nonsense because they don’t want to go through.
Everybody has issues. People are trying to maintain with the little oil that they have. Call somebody with good news sometime. Let them be glad to see you come and hate to see you go and not the other way around.